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曾經兩個相愛的人，一方提出分手，另一方痛苦是肯定了。但是，不管有多痛，分手時，你都不要和曾經愛你的人和你愛的說狠話。你好好想想，這個世界上，能傷害到你的人，一定是你愛的人；能讓你受傷的人，一定是愛你的人。不然，他怎麼有機會在你心上刻下傷痕？他怎麼有資格讓你在情海浮沉？
Translation:
When breaking up comes into the picture between two person in love, the one who is faced with the mentioning of breaking up, will hurt for sure. But no matter how pain it is, when breaking up, do not ever say nasty things to the person who you loved and loved you. Think about it, in this world, the only people who can hurt you are those who you love, and for those who can make you feel hurt are those who love you. How else would he or she have that opportunity to leave that scar on your heart? How would he or she has the rights to make you feel the waves in this sea of emotions?
如果命中注定要分手，你還咬牙切齒地說那些可笑的狠話有什麼用？有能耐你一天24小時罵他烏龜王八甲魚鱉試試？人，本來是兩只腳，現在被你多罵兩只腳出來，他只會跑得更快，而且會順手帶走以前屬於你們兩個人的東西，一點也不給你剩下。既然人家已經放手，你就不要再握著那點微不足道的感情騙自己了。誰都知道，相愛總是簡單，相處太難。相處久了，烈焰激情自然會歸於平淡。而愛情與平淡，本來就是一胎孿生。這樣一來，在兩個曾經相愛的人之間發生悲傷的故事，也就不奇怪了。
愛，本來是快樂的事，現在，被弄成最傷心的事，你以為只是一方的責任嗎？現代愛情，不是父母說了算的年代；不是王老虎搶親的年代，不是下級有意見上級強制打壓的時代，一切自由都握在你自己手中。當初和他牽手，是何等幸福。現在提出分手，也許是你做了讓他感到非常失望事。上天給每個人，都預備好一張去地獄的單程車票。關鍵是，不要把自己當成天使，不然，就有時時被折斷翅膀的疼痛。
Translation:
Love, is suppose to be a happy thing. But now, it has become the saddest thing. Do you think that it's only his or her fault? Love nowadays is not like in the olden days, when parents have the last decision. It's is also not the times when people are fighting for a bachelor. The freedom to love, is in your own hands. At the beginning, when you held his or her hands, that was happiness you felt. Now that he or she ask to break up, it might be because you did something to let him or her down. Heaven gave everyone a ticket to hell. The key is not to see yourself as an angel, or sometimes, you have to face the pain of having your wings broken off.
不要相信流行歌曲裡“我的心只有你最懂”，那是騙人的。一個人的心，就是挖出來，放在你手心裡，再讓你戴上一萬兩千度窺視鏡，都看不出它裡面的內容。何況，他的心，還好好地包裹在厚厚的皮肉裡呢。試想，你的心如果真的只有他一個人懂，那麼，他離你而去，你這一生不是無人再懂了嗎？無人懂的一生，是可憐的一生，可悲的一生，死活都無所謂的一生。你想自己的一生只為一個人活嗎？遇到這種人，你不妨反著唱：“我的心只有你不懂。”
愛，難分對錯，如果你智慧地分清楚了，那就應該學會把錯忘記。忘記，是一種精神代謝，一個不會忘卻的大腦，如同一個只會進氣、不會撒氣的氣球，早晚讓你憋悶而亡。其實，你只要知道，並不是所有的情意，都能纏綿；並不是所有的相遇，都能同行；並不是所有的愛戀，都能長廝守；就行了。愛人可以走，但是，曾經的情意帶不走。面對轉身的愛情，真誠地道一聲“一路保重”，比硬著心腸說狠話好。
很多人張大嘴巴高喊：我愛就無怨無悔！其實，都是自欺欺人的鬼話。付出了，在心底都希望有回報。人心都是肉長的，有這種思想並不可恥。就像有的人，心裡明明愛，嘴卻硬說恨，這時候的恨，就像是抹在愛表面的一層黃油，是為了掩蓋真相。不然，愛火熄了，痛就不會燃燒。但是，千萬不要讓痛灼傷大腦，不要在分手時做愚婦或做蠢男，尤其不要讓對方為當時選擇離開你而感到萬分慶幸。
愛的反面是恨，恨的正面是愛。一個緣字，就會莫名其妙地將正反顛倒。愛像巧克力，吃得太快，品味香甜的時間就要縮短；吃得太慢，剩下的部分又會化掉；恨像酒，喝得太快，讓人沉醉同時也傷胃；喝得太慢，又感覺不夠濃烈。如果你不能適時恰當地把愛吃掉，不能及時妥當地把恨喝掉，任其發展，它們早晚會變成酒糟一樣即難聞又有毒的東西，這對身體是極其有害的。
一段感情走到盡頭，你不要向他傾倒無情的口水來證明你被拋棄的痛苦和無辜。如果那樣做，能讓你的傷口好得快一點；讓你的心理平衡一點；讓你重新找回自我的時間縮短一點，那麼，你就不遺余力地向曾經愛過你的人和你愛過的人猛烈開火吧！你一定要近距離瞄准，出手時，爭取彈無虛發，招招致命。早聽說“殺人一千，自損八百。”不相信從你口中說出的狠毒的話，在讓對方無地自容的同時，你自己的心一點也不疼？
Translation:
When a relationship comes to an end, you don't have to rant to the other party, how wronged and pain you are after being broken up with. If that can make you heal faster, let you find the balance inside you, or lessen the time you need to find back yourself, please go ahead ahead and shoot. But remember, maintain a distance and aim. When you strike, do it with a headshot. But when those words come from you, do you not feel the pain at all?
如果你真的從心底往外恨，那說明你根本不是真愛他，你只是習慣他整天圍著你轉罷了，他的角色不過是備胎而已。既然從你這裡得不到重視，人家選擇去為別的車服務，你有什麼不舍，有什麼不平衡？
Translation:
If you really hate the other person inside out, it shows that you do not love him or her at all. You're just used to that person being around you all the time. He or she is but a mere replacement, a spare tyre. Since that person can never feel important around you, it can't be help if he or she decided to move on. What is there to feel unjust about?
傷口，是愛的筆記，裡面記載的許多內容是需要你用一生來忘記的。能夠相伴一生的情感，難道不值得珍惜嗎？痛苦是人生一筆重要的財富，不要輕易踐踏；曾經愛過你的人，前世一定和你有緣，不要語言虐待。如果他今生真的負你了，那是因為你前生負他，紅塵輪回，無需計較..
Translation:
Scars, are the diaries of love. Inside these diaries contains contents that you'll take a whole life to forget. Relationships that can accompany you throughout your lifetime, isn't it worth cherishing? Pain is a form of wealth, important in life, do not trample on it easily. A person who once loved you, must have had some form of affinity with you in both of your previous lives, so don't abuse him or her verbally. In this life, should he or she ever let you down, it's because you did the same to him or her in your previous life. What goes around comes around, there's no need to be calculative.
Credits: Getjetso.
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