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Title: Characteristics of women which turn guys off
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1. I admit that sometimes, I am stubborn (most of the times perhaps), unreasonable and self-centered.
So, what am I stubborn about?
The morning messages, good night calls and messages.
That kiss before I sleep, the kiss before we split for the day.
How am I unreasonable about?
Being angry for not getting the calls and messages.
Being upset for not getting the kiss.
Making a fuss because he did nothing to comfort me.
I don't think I am being very self-centered all the time.
At least, do I do care about his feelings.
Why else would I care for him.
2. I am not the kind of girl, who're into power, fame and only have eyes for money.
True, sometimes, I have dreams of becoming popular, being a famous DJ and all.
But I don't ask for my boyfriend to have power and fame, or have a mountain of gold.
All I ask, at most, is for him to have a stable income, be able to provide for our future family.
At the very least, able to provide for himself.
But when one is in love, money isn't that much of a big problem.
Because even luxuries cannot be compared to both of us spending time together.
3. To speak bad about people and gossip.
I don't like to speak bad about people.
I don't like to backstab people.
As a matter of fact, I only talk about what has been done.
If you, reading this, are thinking that I always speak bad of my boyfriend, please read through the list of posts I've ever written on this blog.
Are all the posts about the bad things he did?
I don't think so.
Like what I said, I only mention the things that he did.
And when I type it on the blog here, I will talk to him about the issue mentioned, before or after blogging.
But whether he listens to me, or not, that's a different story.
As for bitching, I don't deny I bitch about it.
But again, at the end of the day, I will tell the target of the person I bitched about.
And if I was wrong, I will apologize, both to the person and clear the misunderstanding on this blog.
As for gossip, perhaps I do listen to some, but I wouldn't spread.
4. I do not like to act blur, and I do not like being a hypocrite.
Even if you don't believe, I know myself enough to make that statement above.
People who know me well will know by well, I do not have to act blur.
I am naturally blur.
Lolz, blur don't mean I am stupid though.
It just means I am slower when it comes to learning and realizing things.
As for a hypocrite, I am not.
When I am happy, I am happy.
When I am upset, I am upset.
When I am upset and I show that I am happy, it's not because I am fake.
It's because I don't want people to be worried.
5. I always know that guys are not born ATM machine, and they're not my personal drivers.
As in my point 2, I do not see only money in my eyes.
Therefore, I don't get together with a guy just because I want him to pay for me.
In addition, if I love that guy so much, why would I wanna keep let him spend money on me?
As for the personal drivers thing, it doesn't apply to me since I have never dated a guy with car.
But yea, I have enough backbone to not request my boyfriend to drive me home.
Then again, unless he has valid reason, a guy who has car but not drive a girl home is perhaps not that gentleman after all.
Because if he truly loves her, I am sure he wanna protect her all the time, and that includes getting her home safely ;) .
I repeat - my main point is getting the girl safely, so in the end, traveling on foot, bus, train is fine, it doesn't have to be him driving her home.
6. I do ask for men and women to have equal rights.
However, I do not ask to put women's rights above men's rights.
When I ask for equal, I ask for equal.
7. Using ex as comparison.
For this, I apologize.
I am sorry, Jason.
Humans just love to compare.
Parents compare their children with the children's cousins, their friends, etc.
Teachers compare their students.
People compare anything and just about everything and everyone.
I am not a saint, and hence, I am no exception.
I do understand that this is not an excuse for me to compare my boyfriend with my ex.
After all, they're both different people.
I do make it clear that, I understand both are different people and hence I don't expect one to be like the other.
Albeit when I am starting to compare, there must be a reason.
And nowadays, when I compare, I don't use my boyfriend to compare with my ex.
It's meaningless.
I weigh the care and concerned my boyfriend showered and showers me with.
If you get what I mean.
8. Gahz, I hate myself for this.
Being late and have no sense of urgency.
I know I am late, often.
But the situation in which the guy waits at my house downstairs does not apply to me because apparently, my boyfriend does not do it for me at this moment.
Reason being, we're living together.
But yes, for being late on our dates, I am sorry.
9. I always claim that my boyfriend do not understand me, and the thing is, I spoke my mind.
This is something that I can't get over and probably will never get over.
It's not on purpose that I wanna bring up that ex of mine at this point, but it's related.
Be it my ex, or my current, the same problem exist.
I talk.
It's either they listen or they don't.
They're unwilling to say what's on their mind.
I think and wonder.
They say I think too much.
I get upset.
Because they're the one who make me think too much.
And then they act as though it's my fault for thinking too much.
But yet they still don't wanna say what's on their mind.
10. I do not scream at everything.
I scream when I am desperate.
And when I am desperate, it's usually after I tried everything and ran out of ways.
It's when I am helpless and need understanding.
It's when I am at the verge of breaking down.
It's because my world feels as though it's falling apart.
And it's because my heart is shattering into pieces, bleeding and I can't do anything to prevent it.
11. I will learn how to drive.
And I will definitely be a good and careful driver.
So yea ;D .
12. I do not renew photo albums all the time.
And I know how to tidy home, it's just.
I am lazy.
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13. I don't always talk about clubs, and I don't give much damn about branded stuff.
I talk about clubs occasionally.
Curious mahz.
Hahaz, but I don't talk about them all the time, think of going there all the time.
At least if I do, I think about going there with my boyfriend.
And friends.
Hmmz, seriously as for branded stuff, I don't even know how the logos really look like.
Until my current boyfriend brought me to walk around Orchard, I know practically nothing about branded goods ;) .
Up till now, I still don't think branded goods are important to me.
As my mum always say, comfort is the most important quality ;D .
14. I am not that slim, I am not that fat.
I have a big butt and thick thighs.
Sigh, but yea, I always say I am gaining weight.
And it's a fact.
15. I am not a vainpot, and I take pictures of almost everything and everyone if I have the chance.
Hahahahaz, I remember my longest record of not combing hair is prolly around 1 month.
I wash my hair and all but yea, I don't comb if I don't need to.
And when I take pictures, I usually take it with my family, boyfriend, and friends.
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| This is true. Do you know why? Because while this person is trying to keep everyone happy and caring for everyone, almost no one is trying to keep this person happy and care for this person, that's why. |
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